Question-Why are women becoming more like men?
Early this morning, I started thinking about how women are becoming more and more like men. We tend to physical fight other women as well as men. We say we don’t want a marriage, children, or a man altogether. We even go as far as to move, walk, and build our body like men. I’m talking about women who are heterosexual. I feel like ever since feminist and the liberation, women took that as the right to become men. Now don’t get me wrong, women shouldn’t be completely helpless. Every woman should have survival skills. Why? Because there’s not going to always be a man around to do the job and knowledge is power. I too want to learn how to fix a car, do plumbing, and fix broken appliances. But, that can’t stop me from being feminine altogether. Why? Because when you do that, you are saying that a man hold no place/ position in your life. Do I think women should play sports? Hmmmm…….Yes and no. Yes, because despite being a “woman” we are still human and have our own unique interest. But, on the other hand, I say no because whenever you see a lot of women in sports, their bodies look muscular, and some of their voices sound like men. Why is it just because you’re in sports, you think you’re body has to resemble that of a mans? Is it because you’re doing the sport that was originally created for the strength of a mans, so now you have to create extra muscle to keep up? Did you take sports from men just to be spiteful because us women didn’t like to feel controlled? We as women can take control without becoming men. We take control by knowing when to say yes or no.
- No I won’t let a man mentally or physically abuse me.
- No I won’t let men use me for just my body
- No I won’t become your sex object
- No I won’t let you define what is or isn’t beautiful
- No I won’t let you control my mind.
Us women I feel hold our own unique power, and we shouldn’t steal the power of men just to feel relevant. We need to tap into our own power! Our power doesn’t come from muscular physical strength, it comes from our power to create life physically and mentally. Our natural biological makeup proves this point. Men naturally have more muscle than women. Men can create extra muscle more easily than women. Men don’t have periods to recreate(women do), but they do have physical strength. Us women came with periods to reproduce, but not with extra muscle. Why don’t we find pride in the fact that WE women hold the power to create life? Man and woman has to come through us first! And that’s why we should have the mentality of a nurturer. Why? Because we nurture life in our wombs for 9 months. And because of that, we should naturally want to nurture that life when it’s born. To do that, you have to be sweet, calm, caring, patient, soft, and sensitive. You can’t do that being an angry she hulk! You know, the hulk!
But, not only should you allow yourself to be sweet and vulnerable with your children, but with the man of your life. If a man is properly playing his role as the protector and provider, that leaves you the space to be nurturing. Why do I say he is the protector and provider? Because he has the mental and physical capacity to do both. He protects with his physical strength, and provides for us with his physical strength. He more now provides with his mental strength ; men used more of their physical strength before things became industrialized. when a man comes home from physical and mental stress from playing his role, he needs us there to nurture him.
- A soft subtle voice(calming)
- Soft feminine skin
- A body that’s built like a woman to hold something that’s enticing and that’s not like his own.(That helps to get him in the mood to reproduce/ bring life.)
- Someone to listen to him and give encouragement
- Someone to carry his children(bring life because he doesn’t have a womb)
- Someone sweet and beautiful. (Women are beautiful)
- Cook a hot meal . ( He’s too busy providing to cook)
- Sweet smell of a woman
All these things should make a man want to treat you soft and gentle. It should make him want to protect you. Why? Because you can use the same theory with a baby. Babies are so small, cute, soft, and loveable! Doesn’t that make you want to love and protect the baby? But, if babies were born like little hulks, we wouldn’t feel the need to protect, and we might even fear them! Lol! The only thing we should be equal to men with is our brain. The power of thought, choices, and opinion! Not our bodies!
Fishing for reasons to be like a man!
What do you think?
Feda didn’t know!